Today, I wanted to talk about some of the foundational work I feel that people should think about and do as they figure out if non-monogamy is the relationship style for them. Actually, I feel that people should do these things even if they are monogamous, to pinpoint exactly what they want to include in the different types of relationships that everyone has (romantic, sexual, platonic, business, familial, etc).
Read MoreI really wanted to talk about this because I do think that this is a valid concern that many people have.
Read MoreContrary to what a lot of people think, I don’t hate monogamy. (Matter of fact, most non-monogamous people I know don’t either.)
I hate that people don’t make conscious choices.
Read MoreSome find it very easy to merge kink and non-monogamy, while others do not. The difficulty could be chalked up to interpersonal dynamics, as one of the things that many find the hardest to reconcile is non-monogamy vs power exchange dynamics…
Read MoreTravel back with me if you will to 2012 and my first consensually non-monogamous relationship. It was great! My girlfriend at the time would let me use her car to go carry out my hauxing while she was at work. I was a real life Jody from Baby Boy, accept my Yvette knew about it and was absolutely down. Trust me, she had her fair share of excursions and exploits as well.
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