FAQ
GENERAL FAQ
Q: What is The Haux Hive?
A: The Haux Hive is a sex-positive community centering the safety and free expression of Black queer womxn and QTPOC. We strive to create unique spaces for the variety of diverse identities within the kink, BDSM, swinger, and SWer communities both online and in-person.
Q: What is a Haux?
A: A Haux is anyone of any gender who finds power in their sexuality. A Haux respects themselves, their partner(s), and the sexual autonomy of all people. The word “haux” reclaims the word “hoe” and replaces its negative connotation with celebration and empowerment.
Q. Are there rules for Haux Hive spaces?
A: Yes, all guests are expected to abide by the HAUX CODE and our Code of Conduct.
Q: What is the refund policy?
A: NO REFUNDS ON ANY HAUX HIVE EVENT TICKETS. All ticket sales are final and non-refundable. We do not offer refunds for any reason, including but not limited to event cancellation, change of plans, personal reasons, or dissatisfaction with the event. A transfer ticket to the subsequent Haux Hive Event may be issued at our discretion. This means a ticket can only be transferred to the event immediately following the originally purchased ticketed event.
Q: What does it mean to transfer a ticket?
A: Transfer of Tickets: In certain cases, we may consider issuing a transfer ticket to a subsequent event at our discretion. This means that if you are unable to attend the current event, you may be eligible to use the value of your purchased tickets as credit towards attending the following event.
Q: How do I transfer my tickets?
A: How to Request a Transfer: If you wish to request a transfer ticket, please contact our customer support team at info@thehauxhive.com with your request. Provide your original ticket details, reasons for the transfer, and any relevant information. Our team will review your request and respond.
Q. How are Haux Hive events vetted?
A: As of January 2023, The Haux Hive produces Low Vet events. We gather guest info at ticket purchase, require a signed code of conduct, and will check IDs at the door. Security is present at all Haux Hive events as well as trained Haux Hive staff.
Performative shows are open to all but dungeon experiences and after-parties may require a referral reference or vouching member. See individual event listings for vetting specifics.
Q: What if I don’t want anyone to know I was at a Haux Hive event?
A: What happens in the Haux Hive stays in the Haux Hive. That being said, we cannot promise 100% privacy at our events. What we can promise are the parameters we have in place to ensure that your privacy is at the forefront. This includes ensuring our professional photographers and videographers will not capture you on camera without your consent and cameras are never present during open play. We also discuss our Haux Code and Code of Conduct with attendees at every event, hire security to ensure these codes are followed, enforce a no cell phone photography or videography policy, and keep our event guest list and contact information private.
A limited amount of door tickets payable by cash are available on a first-come, first-serve basis for those that wish to avoid our events appearing on credit statements.
Q. What is your Covid Policy?
A. We recommend the use of masks as well as rapid testing prior to all events, regardless of vaccination status.
If you test positive or are showing symptoms the day of, please notify us at least 4 hours before the event start time and your ticket may be credited towards the subsequent Haux Hive experience. If you fail to notify us before the 4-hour cut-off, you forfeit your eligibility for a transfer. Your transfer is only transferable to the subsequent Haux Hive event.
We will send a 3-day Health Check-In email following an event to all attendees. If you test positive for Covid within 72 hours following a Haux Hive experience, please email info@thehauxhive.com and we will notify all guests.
As a reminder, we do recommend Covid and STI testing before and after any intimate events.
Q. Are vaccinations required to attend Haux Hive events?
A: Our vaccination policy varies by venue. We recommend the use of masks as well as rapid testing prior to all events, regardless of vaccination status.
*Please Note: Alll Haux Hive events held at The Crucible now require vaccination to enter.
Q: Are Haux Hive events accessible?
A: A: All Haux Hive events include an ASL interpreter or Closed Captions for virtual and video experiences. Check each individual event for accessibility info (step count, elevator, steps, seats, fat body friendly). For your accessibility needs please contact info@thehauxhive.com.
Q: Is there a House Safe Word for Haux Hive Play Dates?
A: The Haux Hive Safe Word is BUMBLE but please see individual event details for dungeon Safe Word.
We work in 2 primary spaces. The safewords for both are RED for stop, and YELLOW for caution.
“SAFEWORD” spoken loudly by ANYONE in or near a scene is acknowledged as a request for immediate outside attention. A Staff member or Dungeon Monitor will intervene in a scene if s/he hears the word SAFEWORD or RED and the scene is not stopped.
Q. Can I share anonymous feedback or a testimony about my experience with The Haux Hive?
A. Yes, our HAUXS ANONYMOUS Feedback box can be found here: Speak your mind!
You will also find a physical HAUXS ANONYMOUS box in the lobby of each event for you to share in real-time. We welcome all constructive feedback and personal testimonies.
For public testimony and support, Aftercare Calls are held the Wednesday following a Haux Hive event via zoom for guests to share their unique experiences in a safe space. The meeting link will be sent out 24-48 hours following an event to all ticket holders.
Q. What do I do if a person who has caused me harm is in the space?
Due to our small staff, we cannot navigate instances of harm that happen outside of Haux Hive spaces but here is the link to NCSF. If you need emotional support in the space, our Audience Care Specialists (Care Bears) are in place for you. With up to 24 hours advance notice, we can honor Legal paperwork.
Q. What do I do if harmed during a Haux Hive event?
Please find Security or a Dungeon Monitor. Our Safety Policy is currently being updated as part of our Accountability Process. Please check back for more information.
What do I do if I'm alone and uncomfortable?
Our Audience Care Specialists or Care Bears are in place for your emotional support needs. You can locate them by their bright Yellow shirts.
What to do if I witness harm?
Please find Security or a Dungeon Monitor. Our Safety Policy is currently being updated as part of our Accountability Process. Please check back for more information.
Who do I contact for a medical emergency?
Security. They will call 911 and/or communicate with venue staff in charge of medical emergencies.
TASTE.TOUCH.FEEL. FAQ
Q: What is Taste.Touch.Feel?
A: Taste.Touch.Feel. is an interactive adult playdate that combines visual, tactile, and culinary stimulation to create a sensual experience like no other. The event is comprised of two distinct experiences. The first is an immersive burlesque and variety show complete with kink education and plenty of opportunities for audience participation. The afterparty gives guests an opportunity to apply what they learned during the show and satiate their sensual palates. Consent is key and guests are welcome to engage to the extent of their comfort.
Q: What should I expect?
A: Expect to be entertained by some of the most exciting burlesque and variety acts from the DC area and beyond and educated by experts in kink and BDSM through provocative discussions and educational demonstrations. Each show boasts a diverse cast that showcases a vast array of talent, creativity, and professionalism.
There is a 15 minute transition period in between the show and after party to remove chairs and replace them with dungeon equipment.
During the afterparty, all types of play are encouraged. There will be light activities available like coloring books, uno cards, and a pool table or expect dancing when the mood is right and spontaneous performances on the dance floor. Tipping is still etiquette for after party performances. You’ll witness a plethora of consensual adult activities including scenes from our Haux Hive vetted doms. All dungeon equipment is available for use and private rooms are available on a first come, first serve basis.
Q: Who is this event intended for?
A: The Haux Hive’s Taste.Touch.Feel. experiences are intentionally curated with the safety of Black queer womxn and QTPOC as the priority in the space. We welcome people of all identities to attend and enjoy and ask that all attendees bear our priority in mind. We seek to highlight Black performers and presenters of color with the aim of disrupting the mainstream heteronormative and whitewashed view of burlesque and kink. Taste.Touch.Feel. is a 21+ event.
Q: Is Taste.Touch.Feel accessible?
A: All Haux Hive events include an ASL interpreter. If you need further accommodations, please email info@thehauxhive.com a minimum of 48 hours before the event.
Please check each individual event for additional accessibility info (step count, elevator, steps, seats, fat body friendly).
Q: What are the rules about phones and cameras?
A: THERE ARE ABSOLUTELY NO PHONES OR CAMERAS PERMITTED BEYOND THE LOBBY. Phones and cameras can be left in your car or stored in a locker. If you are seen during the show or afterparty with your phone or camera out, you will be asked to leave without a refund of your ticket.
Q: What should I wear to Taste.Touch.Feel.?
A: Dress to impress or in your kinky best! - Whatever that means for you! For certain themed shows, we encourage guests to adhere to the theme to participate in our Best Dressed Contest, but it’s not at all mandatory unless otherwise stated.
We suggest bringing a change of clothes if you intend to stay and play at the after-party.
Q: What else should I bring to optimize my experience?
A. All you need is yourself, an open mind, and good vibes but you can consider bringing:
Change of clothes
Preferred Snack
Toys
Lube
Gloves
Water
Blanket
Any medications you may need
Emergency contact info written down and accessible
Masks
Hand Sanitizer
Pen and notepad- since you can’t have your phones in the space it’s a good way to take notes or exchange information
Anything that calms/soothes you/grounding/aftercare equipment
Suggested items: blankets, stuffies, gummy bears, soft items, essential oils
Q: Where can I keep my coat/bag/street clothes/phone/camera?
A: There is a monitored coat check area with lockers and hangers for you to store your belongings safely. No locks are provided so we suggest bringing your own if you desire additional security.
Q. Can I come and go freely in the space?
A: We do allow re-entry to the space, made at the discretion of the Haux Hive staff. Certain events have varying entry requirements. Please refer to individual event listings.
Cell phones may be used in the lobby or identified spaces. Please use the designated smoking area to get fresh air and take a break.
Exceptions may be made at the discretion of Haux Hive door staff.
Q. Can I just watch?
A: Yes! Consented voyeurism is permitted in Haux Hive spaces so long as you abide by proper dungeon etiquette and keep a safe distance from those engaged in play.
Q. I’m nervous about approaching others and being approached in this setting. Are their tools in place to help?
A. Yes! Our Play Space Wristband System serves as an excellent conversation starter or barrier to entry.
RED - Voyeur. Just feeling it out.
YELLOW - Down to Negotiate. Let’s Chat.
GREEN - Top Tier Haux. Ready to Play
VIP - VIP table seating (show only)
The Wristband Key can be found in the lobby. You may change your band as needed throughout the night.
Q: Is there alcohol present?
A: SSC (safe, sane, consensual) standards in kink spaces typically don’t allow for alcohol. However, if there is a full bar present, anyone who chooses to participate in activities at TTF recognizes that there are risks that people choose to take in scenes and that alcohol may complicate these activities. Each guest must evaluate their own risk level – ask questions; ask a dungeon monitor, seriously evaluate your own personal limits and tolerance for risk with others.
We support both Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC) and Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) ethos in regard to all BDSM play and ask that all attendees consume alcohol responsibly for the safety of everyone present.
Security is in place to remove anyone who appears to be inebriated beyond their limits.
Q. How are Haux Hive events vetted?
A: As of January 2023, The Haux Hive produces Low Vet events. We gather guest info at ticket purchase, require a signed code of conduct, and will check IDs at the door. Security is present at all Haux Hive events as well as trained Haux Hive staff.
Performative shows are open to all but dungeon experiences and after-parties may require a referral reference or vouching member. See individual event listings for vetting specifics.
Q. What do I do if a person who has caused me harm is in the space?
Due to our small staff, we cannot navigate instances of harm that happen outside of Haux Hive spaces but here is the link to NCSF. If you need emotional support in the space, our Audience Care Specialists are in place for you. With up to 24 hours advance notice, we can honor Legal paperwork.
Q: Is there a House Safe Word for Haux Hive Play Dates?
A: The Haux Hive Safe Word is BUMBLE but please see individual event details for dungeon Safe Word.
We work in 2 primary spaces. The safewords for both are RED for stop, and YELLOW for caution.
“SAFEWORD” spoken loudly by ANYONE in or near a scene is acknowledged as a request for immediate outside attention. A Staff member or Dungeon Monitor will intervene in a scene if s/he hears the word SAFEWORD or RED and the scene is not stopped.
Q. What do I do if harmed during a Haux Hive event?
Please find Security or a Dungeon Monitor. Our Safety Policy is currently being updated as part of our Accountability Process. Please check back for more information.
Q: What do I do if I'm alone and uncomfortable?
Our Audience Care Specialists or Care Bears are in place for your emotional support needs. You can locate them by their bright Yellow shirts.
Q: What to do if I witness harm?
Please find Security or a Dungeon Monitor. Our Safety Policy is currently being updated as part of our Accountability Process. Please check back for more information.
Q: Who do I contact for a medical emergency?
Security. They will call 911 and/or communicate with venue staff in charge of medical emergencies.
Q: Who is the Haux Hive [event] staff?
Staff may vary per event but each event will include Head Honey (Production Manager), Honeys, Audience Care Specialists (Care Bears), Security, and Kink Educator(s).
A list of Official Haux Hive staff members can be found HERE.
The Haux Hive vetted doms are cleared by Haux Hive to play or scene at Haux Hive events. Any other dominants in the space are not affiliated with The Haux Hive. A list of vetted doms can be found [HERE].
Vetted doms are identified by the Stanchions surrounding their scene and an identifying sign.
Q: How do I identify Haux Hive staff and volunteers?
A: All Haux staff and volunteers will have on lanyards identifying themselves and their roles. Below we’ve outlined more ways to find our volunteers and staff. Please note, this is subject to change but we will always keep attendees updated on how to identify Haux Hive staff and volunteers.
Honeys - White Crop Tops with “Honey” written in RED
Care Bears - Yellow Tees with black lettering saying “Care Bears”
Dungeon Monitors - Reflective vests.
Security - All Black and located around the perimeter of the event space.
Q: When is the next Aftercare Call?
A: Aftercare calls are held the Wednesday following a Haux Hive event via Zoom for guests to share their unique experiences in a facilitated space. The meeting link will be sent out 24-48 hours following an event to all ticket holders. Subject to change if needed.
SAFE WORD FAQ
Q: What is SAFE WORD?
A: Safe Word is a new monthly Haux Hive event series (2023) geared exclusively towards kink education and etiquette in a guided and interactive setting.
SAFE WORD is meant to serve as an introduction to kink, BDSM, and Haux Hive dungeon experiences. Guests will have the opportunity to learn from experts and experience a number of interactive ‘Play Stations’ centered around the current Safe Word theme.
Q: What if I’m late?
A: To ensure the safety of all participants, no one is permitted to enter beyond the educational portion of the evening. Education begins no later than 9:30 pm, which is the cut-off time. You will not be refunded if you miss the cut-off.
Q. Can I come and go freely in the space?
A: Unfortunately, after you have entered the venue, we do not allow re-entry. Please use the designated smoking area to get fresh air and take a break. Cell phones may be used in the lobby.
Exceptions may be made at the discretion of Haux Hive door staff.
Q: What are the rules about phones and cameras?
A: THERE ARE ABSOLUTELY NO PHONES OR CAMERAS PERMITTED BEYOND THE LOBBY. Phones and camera can be left in your car or stored in a locker. If you are seen during the show or afterparty with your phone or camera out, you will be asked to leave without a refund of your ticket.
Q: What else should I bring to optimize my experience?
A. All you need is yourself and good vibes but you can consider bringing:
Change of clothes
Preferred Snack
Toys
Lube
Gloves
Water
Blanket
Any medications you may need
Emergency contact info written down and accessible
Masks
Hanny Sanny
Pen and notepad- since you can’t have your phones in the space it’s a good way to take notes or exchange information
Anything that calms/soothes you/grounding/aftercare equipment
Suggested items: blankets, stuffies, gummy bears, soft items, essential oils
Q: Where can I keep my coat/bag/street clothes/phone/camera?
A: There is a monitored coat check area with lockers and hangers for you to safely store your belongings. No locks are provided so we suggest bringing your own if you desire additional security.
Q. Can I just watch?
A: Yes! Voyeurism is permitted in Haux Hive spaces so long as you abide by proper dungeon etiquette and keep a safe distance from those engaged in play.
Q. I’m nervous about approaching others and being approached in this setting. Are their tools in place to help?
A. Yes! Our Play Space Wristband System serves as an excellent conversation starter or barrier to entry.
RED - Voyeur. Just feeling it out.
YELLOW - Down to Negotiate. Let’s Chat.
GREEN - Top Tier Haux. Ready to Play
VIP - VIP table seating (show only)
The Wristband Key can be found in the lobby. You may change your band as needed throughout the night.
Q: Is there alcohol present?
A: SSC (safe, sane, consensual) standards in kink spaces typically don’t allow for alcohol. However, Washington DC Safe Word shows do have a full bar present - Baltimore shows have a dry bar. Anyone who chooses to participate in activities at TTF recognizes that there are risks that people choose to take in scenes and that alcohol may complicate these activities. Each guest must evaluate their own risk level – ask questions; ask a dungeon monitor, seriously evaluate your own personal limits and tolerance for risk with others.
We support both Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC) and Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) ethos in regard to all BDSM play and ask that all attendees consume alcohol responsibly for the safety of everyone present.
Security is in place to remove anyone who appears to be inebriated beyond their limits.
Q: Is there a House Safe Word for Haux Hive Play Dates?
A: The Haux Hive Safe Word is BUMBLE but please see individual event details for dungeon Safe Word.
We work in 2 primary spaces. The safewords for both are RED for stop, and YELLOW for caution.
“SAFEWORD” spoken loudly by ANYONE in or near a scene is acknowledged as a request for immediate outside attention. A Staff member or Dungeon Monitor will intervene in a scene if s/he hears the word SAFEWORD or RED and the scene is not stopped.
Q. What do I do if harmed during a Haux Hive event?
Please find Security or a Dungeon Monitor. Our Safety Policy is currently being updated as part of our Accountability Process. Please check back for more information.
Q: What do I do if I'm alone and uncomfortable?
Our Audience Care Specialists or Care Bears are in place for your emotional support needs. You can locate them by their bright Yellow shirts.
Q: What to do if I witness harm?
Please find Security or a Dungeon Monitor. Our Safety Policy is currently being updated as part of our Accountability Process. Please check back for more information.